Wednesday, September 28, 2011

A change by chance.....

Chapter One:

It is a hot day.  The sun feels as if I were inside an oven.  The noon whistle has not blown yet, so I still have a couple of hours to get lunch prepared.  Its just too hot to eat, much less to figure out what to cook.  As I pour myself a glass of sweet iced tea, I lose myself in my memories......

School was closing in a few hours for the entire summer.  I couldn't wait to get started on my summer.  Swimming, fishing, movies, hanging out with my friends....everything a 17 year old girl loves to do.  Nothing or no one was going to drown out my parade.  This summer was going to be perfect.  As the last bell rang at school, we all ran out to our cars.....the summer had officially began.  I pulled up at my grandmother's house, excited to tell her all about my plans for the summer.  Walking in the house I was mesmerized by the wonderful smells of cinnamon.  Mamaw was baking cookies.  She always had something sweet ready for an visitor that may happen by.  I called out to my grandmother, she was usually busy in the kitchen, but not today.  Something didn't seem right.  Why was she not answering my call.  Just then she appeared.  I could tell by the look on her face, something was wrong.  She begans explaining to me that her sister had broken her foot and needed surgery.  The surgery meant that she would need someone to help her while she was recovering.  My grandmother was distraught because she could not be with her.  My grandfather was a farmer and needed my grandmother to help him with the business.  I could tell by the look on my grandmothers face that she was crushed beyond words.  What was my great aunt going to do?  At that moment, I knew my summer plans had dramatically changed.  As I chewed my last bite of cinnamon cookie, I looked up at my grandmother and said, "Don't worry Mamaw, I will go help Aunt Sue".  The words shocked my grandmother, not because she didn't expect me to offer, but because I had such amazing summer plans and I had let everyone know how nothing was going to interfere with them.  As my eyes looked into hers, the words rang back unto me.  "I will go help Aunt Sue", what did I just say?  Did I really just commit my entire summer to staying indoors?  Well, there is nothing left to do now except go pack a bag and tell my friends goodbye.  With Aunt Sue living over 6 hours away, weekend visits would be out of the question. So seeing any friends would have to wait until August when school started back again.  Suddenly I wished I could turn the months back and have a few more with everyone.  Well, goodbye Mississippi, hello Georgia!  I am sure this will be a  summer I will never forget...........

Friday, April 8, 2011

Worries.....

We all have our own worries and fears.  To each of us, ours are way more important than anyone elses, but something this week has taught me differently.  As a teenager, the worries of our friends and their opinions were foremost in the list of important issues, however as I became a mother of teenagers I often times belittle the worries of my teenagers....telling them that they don't know worry and I wish all I had to do was worry about those issues.  Maybe to me their worries are minute but to them they are very important otherwise they wouldn't be worried about them.  When close friends go thru tragic events, my heart aches for them and I feel their pain....but once my condolences are said, my issues take front to my friends!  The sad but true lesson I learned this week is that no matter what another person is going through, we should never lessen the importance of the event!  To be a true friend, a good mother, sister or aunt is to be there for them always.  To reach out to them and let them see that we love them and will stand by them no matter what.  There are so many issues my family is facing at the present moment.  Not all of them are bad issues, but issues just the same.  Entering unknown territories, life changing decisions, hurting hearts are just naming a few.  I want my family and friends to know that no matter what life throws at them, I will always love them and whatever decisions they make, I will always support them (even if I don't agree)!  Life is a winding road and even though we may stay on track, we can't always see whats around the bend.  But always remember, its just bends in the road.....not detours or dead ends.  Its the bumps we encounter along the way that builds our character, strength and hope for a better tomorrow.  When the road gets bumpy that is when we look to our loved ones for guidance and help.  So, to my family and friends, if I have ever made you feel as if you were not listened to or helped enough by me....I am truly sorry!!  AS of today, my heart will be more open, my ears will listen better and my time will be yours for as long as you need me......because life is short and if we don't make time now....we may never have the chance again!!

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

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